Paul ColaianniI think once you've made your boundaries clear, as you said you have, and someone violates one or…If you get angry and tell him not to do that again but he does it again anyway, then when he does it again you get angry and say, "I told…Apr 19, 2021Apr 19, 2021
Paul ColaianniThe Perpetual Drama and Suffering of the MartyrWhen You Can’t Get Away From The Victim MentalityJan 5, 2021Jan 5, 2021
Paul ColaianniWhy Pandemics Can Bring Out The Best In Some And The Worst In OthersAs I write this, we are in the middle of the CoVid-19 pandemic. And it’s amazing to see what’s unfolding in the world because of it. From…Apr 21, 2020Apr 21, 2020
Paul ColaianniMy Healing Journey from Being an Emotional AbuserEmotional abuse is the ultimate brainwashing technique. It hides in the form of feigned helpfulness, generosity, compassion, and love. The…Feb 25, 20206Feb 25, 20206
Paul ColaianniJudgment: The Ultimate Relationship DestroyerJudgment can be one of the most damaging weapons in a relationship. It tells your partner that it’s not okay to be themselves.Nov 8, 2014Nov 8, 2014